To get somone to open up emotionally, prying into them and pressing to get them to have emotional growth or revelations, sometimes against the will of the person being canopered
we gotta canoper this guy
yeah chris really canopered me
yeah were in the middle of canopering this guy, real tough one but we'll get em.
A hardo is a person who tries extremely hard at everything. Most times a hardo will try very hard at things that do not require excessive effort. For example, sports practices, gym class, etc.
Wow did you see Jack at practice today? What a hardo!