The female performance of the masculine sexual act, the "Dutch Rudder". Much like the Dutch Rudder, each participant stands next to their partner and holds their arm at the elbow. The female places her fingers over her clitorus or inside of her vagina, and her partner "rows the oar" for her, thus completing the act of stimulation.
"Janette isn't gay, but when she's drunk she sometimes get girls to give her the Swedish Oar."
by Sean Sparks Solid September 12, 2009