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Any oral sex from a woman that is long and drawn out, and the climax is only reached after a considerable period of time. One of the key characteristics of a slowjay is that the woman enters a trance like meditative state during the experience.
I went home from the club with this chick and laid on my back and totally copped a dope slowjay.
by slowjaylover January 27, 2011