A word that describes the inexorable state in which a person or thing can exhibit attitudes that range from frustration to quarrelsome behavior, however, only to the extent that such demeanor can be masked by prior inclination to expose a pseudo-jubilant face.
Emily: cats are sweet
Emily: know how to rub against u right
Emily: to get what they want
Emily: and they can be really RASDFASDFS at times
Emily: that describes a woman!