This is when a person tells you what qualities you have, personality traits, etc. It can also be applied when someone's talking to someone else. It's even more harmful if the thing that's being said is simply untrue, and the person doing it has no idea what the person likes or enjoys.
Person: "I wanted to go skiing with your brother, but I don't know if he enjoys it"
Qualitative Gaslighter: "He loves skiing, I'll go and tell him to go with you"
The brother feels as though he now needs to portray this personality trait. Qualitative Gaslighting
Qualitative Gaslighter: "He loves skiing, I'll go and tell him to go with you"
The brother feels as though he now needs to portray this personality trait. Qualitative Gaslighting
by Boy #34 in your bedroom November 25, 2021