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adj: Pertaining to behavior in which feelings of affection are expressed in passive ways as, for example, by lacking warmth, dull kissing, limp hand-holding, non-aggressive sexual activity, or intentional inefficiency during intimacy.
The girl let him kiss her, but in a passive affectionate way.
by MemphisGuy September 07, 2010