A South Asian queer identity used to refer to the "feminine" partner in gender structured same-sex relationships known as kothi,panthi relationships (the other partner being kothi). Kothi is a gender identity of its own; however from a western perspective a kothi can be considered as either a transwoman or a feminine gay man.
After the British criminalised homosexuality in India, it was difficult for Meena, a kothi , to look for a panthi as many panthis married off to straight women, fearing the Eurocentric legal system.
by QueerKutta June 7, 2021
this is used to tease someone in telegu. "koja" means some bad word found by mistake and "kothi" means monkey. if you know the meaning of koja then give a friend request and message to Boogeyman#5010 in Discord!!
"po ra koja kothi" which means, the person you tease is a koja kothi OR "Kasthuri manja kothi koja" which means "deer musk is yello and you are a monkey koja"
by ranjalanja May 1, 2022