Heterosexual male equivalent to fag-bangle. IE. A straight man who hangs out with gays and provides 'het-help', like opening jars, chopping wood, or lighting barbecues.
"Dude is Joe a faggot now? He's been around those Ket-a-poofs a hell of a lot"
"Nah man he's just their Het-a-poof"
"Fuck that's gay"