Noun: A vapid social construct created to shelter the male's ego and his inability to cope with rejection.
I tried to get Sam to go out with me, but she left me in the friend zone.
by SharkBass028 April 05, 2014
A mythical place where men claim to be when they can't get a woman they like to have sex with them. Many of them believe that being nice to a girl is pre-payment for sex, and if she rejects your advances then she's a bitch. They believe for some reason that the only reason they should be kind to a woman is so they can get into her pants.
Many of the 'friendzonees' claim to be nice gus, though really they just have a bad case of Nice Guy Syndrome, and awful disease where one believes that pretending to be your friend in order to get into your pants in a reasonable way to act. When they are rejected because they're "too nice", they bitch and moan and cry to the god of fedoras. He always concludes that women like to be treated like shit, despite the fact that he is dehumanizing them and treating them as objects to be won over by his 'niceness'.
Anna: Why do guys always assume that I owe them sex because they're nice to me?
Samantha: I don't know, Anna. It seems a bit dehumanizing of them.
Anna: Yeah, and I have a boyfriend too...

George: Why won't she date me? I guess it's because I'm too nice, and not because I'm a boring asshole with no hobbies, no common interests and I'm overweight! No, it's probably because I'm the nicest guy ever. What a bitch!
Ian: Yeah I know man... I got friendzoned by this girl I knew for two years... She said it's not because I'm ugly and unattractive, but because she doesn't want to ruin our friendship! Stupid bitch, she obviously wants to be treated like shit!

Sally: Why do guys always think that because I don't want to date them, the people I'm interested in are douchebags?
Maddie: Yeah I know what you mean! My boyfriends a really nice guy, plus he's interesting and we have common interests!
by Rooty Tooty Point and Shooty January 15, 2014
When a girl won't fuck you after you've been "nice" to her.
"I've been trying to get in her pants for weeks by doing nice things and she turned me down for a guy that actually values her as a person!!!"

"What a bitch, frriiieeenndzzzoonnee"

"Whaaat?? She put you in the friend zone?! Tough break bro"

"Poor guy D:"
by Wouldyoulikesome December 11, 2013
Somewhere you'll never find a guy like Victor.
Person #1: "Hey ladies, any of you happen to know where Victor went?"

Person # 2: "Oh, he's been hanging out with Maureen in the Friend Zone."

Person #1: "Ha! That's funny. no seriously. Where is he?"
by Fritz Roc May 29, 2012
What assholes call being rejected by a potential sexual partner.

Often used by people who believe girls are objects, self-declared "nice guys," and/or people who believe normal human kindness warrants sexual favors automatically.
"Man, she put me in the friend zone."
"Dude, you are not entitled to get with her just because you were nice to her."
by biurban May 20, 2014
When someone wishes to pursue a romantic/sexual relationship with a friend, but the one who is being pursued keeps them as a friend.
It is also usually used as an excuse by shallow men who feel entitled to a relationship with the said friend just because they've been nice to them. It is also described by them as, "An inescapable hell."
Some women have been put in the friend-zone, but it's fairly rare.
"I told her I wanted to be her boyfriend, but then she put me in the friend zone. I wasted so much time on her!"
by Ninja Clan here I stand May 16, 2014
When somebody is intent upon making someone else their friend, but that person wants absolutely nothing to do with the first person. The Person being harassed with the attempt at Friendship has been placed in the Friend Zone.
Squidward was placed in the Friend Zone by Spongebob.
by eighthdoctor March 19, 2014

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