Flamerod Share definition Flag One of the numerous disparaging terms for a homosexual male, more specifically those men who partake in a flame train. Check out that Chad standing next to the bar, he's a total flamerod. Flamerod by Big Slick 456344 April 22, 2009 0 0 Get merch Get the Flamerod mug. Buy Now — $32.95 See more merch