An compliment combined with an insult that is designed to undermine another's confidence while maintaining the guise of friendship. While mostly prevelant in discussions amongst females, it can be found in male convos as well.
Kimberly: Those few extra pounds you've gained look really good on you.
Sheba: Um, thanks for the combliment.
Dimitri: Does this shirt make me look fat?
Mike: No, your fat make you look fat, but the shirt kinda hides it.