A person who someone in the military marries to get BAH (Basic Allowance for Housing (free money)). Not necessarily exclusively for BAH, but often times that's the case.
Some dude on Tinder: Looking for a BAH buddy

Read: I'm looking to get hitched, and you can get a cut of the free money
by I_too_am_anon_ August 14, 2019
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