Arse fearer Share definition Flag A man who fears the thought of anal sex with another man of his gender, possibly due to their own surpressed homosexual urges. "Come and get some, or are you too scared you big arse fearer, you!?" Arse fearer by dabheel parver October 5, 2004 0 0 Get merch Get the Arse fearer mug. Buy Now — $32.95 See more merch