Friends with benefits can do things couples can do except without being labled as a BOYFRIEND and a GIRLFRIEND, when you ask if they want to be friends with benefits with you, you both have to agree on what those BENEFITS are, and it doesn't have to contain sex. If you both agree on sex, then it's also considered as friends with benefits.
Guy: Want to be friends with benefits?
Girl: Sure, but what are the benefits?
Guy: Hugging, kissing, holding hands.
Girl: No sex?
Guy: Nope
Girl: Okay sure then.
Thats an example of becoming friends with benefits. You can choose the benefits you want! It doesn't mean you have to have sex or oral or anything, as long as you decide the benefits you want and you both agree on it, then its official.
Girl: Sure, but what are the benefits?
Guy: Hugging, kissing, holding hands.
Girl: No sex?
Guy: Nope
Girl: Okay sure then.
Thats an example of becoming friends with benefits. You can choose the benefits you want! It doesn't mean you have to have sex or oral or anything, as long as you decide the benefits you want and you both agree on it, then its official.
by XiLLuZi0nzX June 11, 2007
A term commonly used by men to appease women so they can get in their pants. Very rarely lasts and usually friendship part doesn't happen. Usually ends with one falling for the other then broken hearted when the other doesnt reciprocate. They then never speak again.
He says we are friends with benefits but we never hang out as friends and he only talks to me when he wants to fuck.
by Thelittlem August 21, 2017
a friend that you are not supposed to be commited to or attached to, that you fuck, or do other sexual activities with.
i have a hot friend with benefits
by laurengonewild November 8, 2003
A mix of friendship and a relationship, with
out the emotional baggage. This can include sex, oral, making out, nudes, etc. Also known as more than friends
out the emotional baggage. This can include sex, oral, making out, nudes, etc. Also known as more than friends
by AGuy02 December 28, 2017
A concept exactly described and labeled "erotic friendship" by Milan Kundera in his classic novel "The Unbearable Lightness of Being", which impressed the literate world back in 1984. That is basically what that book is about: "friend with benefits" vs. "traditional". - And who wins? Well, let's say: both fail, but "traditional" does it with more grace.
I don´t love you, but I like you, I mean, I really like you, I like to have go out with you, I love to have sex with you. You are sort of my friend with benefits.
by Urban Dictionary July 5, 2004
Friends with Benefits is a term used to categorize but not to label an open relationship. usually between a guy and girl.
Friends with Benefits: If two people of the opposite sex are friends and in two different relationships and breakup around the same time, they might choose to be friends with benefits because they both are lonely, or more commonly they both miss having sex.
by The Rollologist December 27, 2011
Exactly what it means. A friendship which has more of a sexual relatioship which doesnt manipulate the friendship
jerry and mary were Friends With Benefits..... using each other for sexual favours, without the bf/gf tag
by PoNy182 May 28, 2006