When you're not gay and not straight, something like bisexual but it makes it sound less, "gay" in a way.
by SWAGISGAY April 13, 2013
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A person who is sexually attracted to the opposing sex but is also able to be romantically involved with a person identifying with the same sex (transgender, nonbinary, genderfluid, etc.) A hetero person who is genderblind.

(This may also be applied to homoflexible)
Why are you dating them? I thought you were straight.

I'm heteroflexible, big difference.
by psuedokai September 12, 2019
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In the kinky community, a straight person who will occasionally engage in BDSM play, but not vanilla sex, with someone of the same gender.
"Hey man, are you coming on to me?"

"Hell no! I'm not going to fuck you. But I'd sure like to turn you over my knee and spank you long and hard, until you are kicking, yelling, begging, and promising to be a good boy for Daddy. I'm heteroflexible enough for that!"
by Amboy54 January 24, 2010
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In the swinging lifestyle someone who will let a person of the same gender preform a sexual act on them, but never reciprocate.
Female #1: Oh she is so sexy, I think I'm gonna try and get me some of that!
Female #2: Honey just skip it she's only Heteroflexible.
Female #1: T#@t tease
by ilovesexy September 18, 2013
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Heteroflexible is just another term for being bisexual that people who are closeted about their sexuality and want to hold onto some part of a heterosexual identity that never was there in the first place since they are not straight or hetero at all.

If the person was really heterosexual or straight they would not be having sex with the same gender while drunk or at all, or sexually attracted to both genders or bisexual.
I'm heteroflexible it means I'm bisexual but I can call myself by a different label to avoid the biphobia that gay men and lesbians have towards bisexuals.
by Dave21876789123 February 11, 2011
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Just another term for being bisexual that people who are bisexual yet closeted use so they can hold onto a Heterosexual identity that never existed at all and avoid identifying as bisexual and avoid all of the stigma and biphobia that comes with identifying and being out as bisexual.
Girl: I'm Heteroflexible it lets me hold onto a quasi-heterosexual identity while not having to come out as bisexual and avoid all of the biphobia from Lesbians!
by Dave21876 February 9, 2011
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An individual who identifies as heteroflexible is one who is actually a bisexual but prefers the opposite sex so they’re just a bisexual with preferences. Heteroflexible is just a made up term for those who suffer from being internally biphobic and homophobic.

Being bisexual doesn’t mean you have to split 50/50 it could be any percentage! Heteroflexible is just a way to differentiate from the bi community and the LGBT community. Be happy and bi! Even if the split is 94 to 6 that’s still bi.
Person 1: Did you hear Danny came out as heteroflexible?

Woke person: So he’s bi but with preferences

Person 1: Yeah.

Woke person: so he’s bi?

Person 1: yeah.
by This desi May 13, 2018
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