akoiromantic 

being able to have or having romantic attraction but not wanting it to be reciprocated/feeling uncomfortable when it is reciprocated
it's like craving intimacy but being allergic to it

alex felt awkward when they and sam began to date and become more intimate even though they had held strong feelings of attraction for them before dating; alex is akoiromantic.

akoiromantic by shedsomelightonit October 13, 2015

akoiromantic 

Someone who experiences romantic attraction, but doesn't wish to act upon it or for it to be reciprocated.

I had a huge crush on her, but as soon as we got into a relationship, doing romantic things with her felt uncomfortable. I think I might be akoiromantic.

akoiromantic by dustsoot July 21, 2014