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1 definition by sub-brena

vanilla > the relationship between a couple, with one having no interest, or participation in the other persons fetish, or lifestyle
BOB: why doesn't your wife come to these munches with you? Isn't she your sub/slave?
TOM: No, she has no interest, or desire for this. but says. If i have to do it,, do it some where else. Just leave the whips, and cuffs there. <ha>
by sub-brena September 21, 2003