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a phrase people use when they’re insinuating a girl might be gay or bisexual due to a trait that is typically perceived as being gay. mostly a joke but also can be used seriously
Sarah: I heard Jen cut her own bangs and then dyed her hair purple on Saturday...
Lily: Is she... you know...
(they look 😳 at each other. end of scene.)
by squid18 January 11, 2020
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