1. A male not necessarily feminine or gay which posseses feminine qualities, akin to the male lesbian, usually has no or little interest in typical sports such as baseball or football or dramatically acts as if he does to fit in. Tom girls many times have trouble with normal romantic relationships with women and normally end up with very masculine women with crazy bitches, on reality tv or skydiving off a high rise building or whatever.
2. male feminist
3. faux homosexual
"tim called me earlier, said he wants to hang out with us at wherever
"no way I'm not hanging out with tim at wherever
that dude is such a fucking tom girl!"