1 definition by lifehasmejaded
Pain can come in numerous ways, shapes, and forms. It depends on what you are going through. There is emotional pain, physical pain, etc, emotional and physical being the most common types. They can happen for a bunch of reasons. You could have gotten in to a car wreck and broken a bone, you could have had your feelings crushed by somebody you thought was on your side, anything can happen. Some good remedies are music, games, reading, and as crazy as it sounds, simply working. The important thing is to get help when needed and talk to people you know you can trust.
I will use a personal example for this one.
I dated a girl from the start of my birthday, but the relationship didn't last very long (a month and a few days to be exact) after the relationship ended we decided we could Still be friends, I was however unsure of this and had to give it some thought. I almost said no, we can't be friends because it would just be to painful for me, but I decided to give her the benefit of the doubt and went through with it, I can't even begin to say how hard it was to even look at her and to still have feelings for her, it really hurt. Then the unthinkable happened, some punk tarnished my name by writing a nasty note about her and left it in my workplace, for whatever reason she did not even come to me to question it, that hurt most of all. The important thing is I had friends that were able to uplift me through the disaster and help me grieve. I still think about her from time to time, and I miss her incredibly, I can really only hope that the person who made this mess comes clean, I lost a friend I wanted to keep, that is the worst kind of pain I've known. I can now only hope that she reads this and it opens her eyes.
I dated a girl from the start of my birthday, but the relationship didn't last very long (a month and a few days to be exact) after the relationship ended we decided we could Still be friends, I was however unsure of this and had to give it some thought. I almost said no, we can't be friends because it would just be to painful for me, but I decided to give her the benefit of the doubt and went through with it, I can't even begin to say how hard it was to even look at her and to still have feelings for her, it really hurt. Then the unthinkable happened, some punk tarnished my name by writing a nasty note about her and left it in my workplace, for whatever reason she did not even come to me to question it, that hurt most of all. The important thing is I had friends that were able to uplift me through the disaster and help me grieve. I still think about her from time to time, and I miss her incredibly, I can really only hope that the person who made this mess comes clean, I lost a friend I wanted to keep, that is the worst kind of pain I've known. I can now only hope that she reads this and it opens her eyes.
by lifehasmejaded August 20, 2013