1 definition by kf,

Indicates who the more important girl is when a guy is cheating. If you're in the wallet, you are the girlfriend, fiancée, wife, more important girl. If you are NOT in the wallet, you are the sidepiece, goomar, the other woman, the less important woman.

Can be a physical picture in the wallet, but is mostly used as a reference to being in a someones heart/special place/thinking of someone seriously. You don't get told if you're in the wallet/out of the wallet by the guy, someone else tells you
1)

A: That asshole was cheating on me

B: I don't think so. You're weren't even in the wallet

2)

A: He's not really upset about the fact you caught him, you're not the one in the wallet
by kf, April 10, 2020
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