The genre of music for bands which label themselves as things like death metal, metalcore, or power metal but are really much softer than they let on. The members of these bands usually dress more like members of an emo band.
Pussy metal bands try to seem brutal or extreme, but usually their lyrics are just bitching about nothing. Pussy metal appeals to whiny teenagers who are trying to feel edgy or badass.
a: Dude you should check out Avenged Sevenfold and Dragonforce! They're awesome bands, their shit is so extreme!!!
b: Fuck that shit! Those bands are just pussy metal.