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1 definition by domino69

 
1.
someone who claims to be a submissive in an S&M scene, but actually attempts to dictate the way the scene plays out
Claire warned Mistress that Joey was a pushy bottom; and indeed no sooner than he was tied down, he proceeded to whine about the position, criticize Mistress's choice of implements, and demand she change the background music.
by domino69 June 21, 2010