the constant act of accommodating a friend named jay, who's always in need; there's usually one in each social group. this individual is loved and wanted, but always needs help and therefore deserves unbridled, open mockery for it.
PERSON A: "yeah, we were going to head to lunch right now, but jay's on a call and needs 15 more minutes and someone to spot him."
PERSON B: "god...always jabysitting his ass...what else will he ask for?"
PERSON A: "he also needs to borrow $500."
PERSON B: "jesus..."
PERSON A: "after work, he also wants a ride home."