1 definition by Whydid you do that
When, usually a guy, approaches a female that he likes for a hang out session. The girl agrees and they start hanging out. Since there has been no clear definition to the relationship set up one, in most cases the guy, has stronger feelings.
When the girl expresses platonic feelings for the guy, the guy expresses three reactions:
1. What did you think this was?! I drove you to place and got you this. You owe me. You led me on!
2. Oh cool no worries we can be friends. Then bitterly complains for years to come that he is better for her despite that fact she is an autonomous human who is capable of making her own descions, and even if she is dating a bad person he is not helping her for her own happiness, it is to get with her himself.
3. The most healthy option. "I see, you and I are at different stages. I don't think I can hang with you as I don't see you as a friend. I'm going to step away and reevaluate myself, then come back and see if we can be real friends."
When the girl expresses platonic feelings for the guy, the guy expresses three reactions:
1. What did you think this was?! I drove you to place and got you this. You owe me. You led me on!
2. Oh cool no worries we can be friends. Then bitterly complains for years to come that he is better for her despite that fact she is an autonomous human who is capable of making her own descions, and even if she is dating a bad person he is not helping her for her own happiness, it is to get with her himself.
3. The most healthy option. "I see, you and I are at different stages. I don't think I can hang with you as I don't see you as a friend. I'm going to step away and reevaluate myself, then come back and see if we can be real friends."
Oh gods she put me in the friendzone. I mean I asked her to hang out when she was already dating someone, but she should see that I am better and she should dump that guy for me.
by Whydid you do that November 27, 2017