A man who is hostile and disrespectful towards women, especially women that don't subscribe to traditional female roles, but he will readily and happily stroke another man's ego (ball lick), in order to avoid conflict. He will snipe at a woman, but soften for a man. He is insecure about his manhood and has contempt for women who he feels challenge his already lowered standing. He is part crab and part bitch ass. He will scrutinize any petty flaw real or imagined, to attack her confidence.
If a women drives a luxury car, he is angry, but if a man drives the same car, he will compliment him.
" that ball licker was in my face gettin loud, but when my man came over, he started being nice."