Raul Terra's definitions

Sandia Rule

The Sandia Rule is a social and ethical guideline that blends the principles of the Platinum Rule (treat others as they want to be treated) and the Golden Rule (treat others as you would like to be treated). It prioritizes understanding and respecting others' preferences and desires, but shifts back to the Golden Rule when there's a conflict with one's own needs and boundaries. This rule is named after the Sandia alloy, a durable mix of platinum and gold, symbolizing the blend of empathy for others with self-care.

The term "Sandia Rule" is inspired by the Sandia alloy, a blend of 90% platinum and 10% gold, known for its exceptional durability and resistance to wear. Just as the alloy represents a strong combination of two valuable elements, the Sandia Rule symbolizes a balanced approach to interpersonal relationships, combining empathy and adaptability with personal well-being and self-respect.

When I realized that accommodating my friend's preference for late-night hangouts was affecting my sleep schedule, I decided to follow the Sandia Rule and proposed an earlier time that worked for both of us.

At work, I apply the Sandia Rule: I try to adapt to my colleagues' work styles, but I also make sure to set clear boundaries so my own productivity isn't compromised.

by Raul Terra November 13, 2023

Anal Ring

A ring of matter orbiting Uranus.

Anal rings are intermediate in complexity between the more extensive set around Saturn and the simpler systems around Jupiter and Neptune.

by Raul Terra November 4, 2020

undivorced

1. A term describing a couple who, despite being profoundly unhappy in their marriage, haven't mustered the courage to get divorced. They often continue to live as a married couple due to societal pressure, shared responsibilities, or the fear of the unknown.

2. Describes a couple who, for all intents and purposes, are separated but are legally still married. This could be due to various reasons, such as financial complexities, the welfare of children involved, or simply due to an inability to finalize the divorce proceedings.

Sarah and John have been living separate lives for years, but they haven't officially split up. They're basically undivorced.

by Raul Terra June 1, 2023

malaprobism

putting something the wrong way or place

Honey, I find your malaprobisms endearing, but your connector is upside down.

by Raul Terra June 26, 2023

Parallel monogamy

The practice of having multiple sexually or romantically committed relationships at the same time, with the consent of all partners involved, with the goal of finding a monogamous life partner. It is more time efficient than serial monogamy.

She decided parallel monogamy was the only way to find the father of her future children before her biological clock ran out.

by Raul Terra February 24, 2021

vebacon

1. A person who primarily follows a vegan diet but makes an exception for bacon, blending the words "vegan" and "bacon" to describe their unique dietary choice.
2. An individual who identifies with the vegan lifestyle and ethos but cannot resist the allure of bacon, thus incorporating it as the sole animal product in their otherwise plant-based diet.

**Examples in a sentence**:

- "I thought I was the only one who loved plant-based meals but couldn't give up bacon until I met another vebacon at the brunch spot!"
- "As a vebacon, finding restaurants that cater to my specific diet can be a challenge, but it's all worth it for that occasional slice of bacon."

I thought I was the only one who loved plant-based meals but couldn't give up bacon until I met another vebacon at the brunch spot!

by Raul Terra February 12, 2024

Catling Gun

An unspayed cat that is continuously birthing litters of kittens.

Our Catling Gun Lavender got knocked up by the neighborhood tomcat yet again while still nursing her litter before we could get her fixed.

by Raul Terra March 13, 2021