1 definition by Jake the Gem
A Gem is a combination of physical and personal traits applying to men in the gay community. Typical Gems display many of the following physical traits: baby face, limited body hair, clean-shaven face, fit but not overly ripped body 5'7-5'10 in height , short brown or black hair, ideal and clear white/tan skin tone usually a product of mixed ethnicity (white/asian) or (white/latino), smart and refined (not overly flamboyant) style. Personality traits that Gems display include a sweet slightly feminine voice, loving to give compliments, a posse of female friends, passive aggressive demeanor, and an air of confidence. Gems are usually young and lose their Gem-ness once they turn 26 upon which it is time to become a man.
by Jake the Gem February 12, 2014