A state of utter and total defeat. Absolute
The term is often
discovering a partner
has no intentions
you, or admitting to it, really. They
will keep your hopes up, when in fact, you're just a leachy, horny mistake. The "slut" is probably fucking someone very close to you.
The slut is extremely attractive and thought to be the be-all, end-all as far as dating
goes. The victim is often
attractive as well, and has always ended relationships. So the first
time it happens for the victim is when their feelings are the strongest.
Unless left untreated (keeping in contact with
the slut), the coma can last up to 3 years. On one occasion I've seen it last to 5.
A "slut coma" can prevent
confidence, an erection, social opportunities to meet new mates, and most notably, a hollow glazed-look for long periods of time.
You: Dude, Cassandra has been texting
me on and off for like 3 months. I saw her at the bar last night and she didn't even look
at me! We had an awesome week but now I think she's fucking my brothers best friend... I thought
she was the one, man.
Friend: Fuck man, you know what you're in?
Friend: A "slut coma," man. A fucking slut coma.