when someone ghosts you for three days or more
Pulling a Paula is when you have a super great conversation with a girl and then she decides to stop texting you all of a sudden. Usually used in a lesbian relationship.

Hey Arcadia, how’s that girl you’ve been taking to? Oh yeah I don’t wanna talk about it, she pulled a Paula.
by gaygeorgewashington December 18, 2018
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