The act of fucking somebody, and in doing so making them gay. This can be done to and by all genders. The female version is"fuck 'er gay" and the male is "fuck 'im gay", "fuck 'em gay"is used in all other situations.
Example one:
Bob: Jane just broke up with me

Tom: why?

Bob: I fucked 'er gay

Example two:
Tim: I got a new boyfriend
Jim: how?
Tim: I fucked 'im gay

Jim: wait, you're gay?

Example three:
Dave: I'm going to have a threesome tonight
Steve: I feel sorry for the girls

Dave: why

Steve: you're probably going to fuck 'em gay
by Just a other idiot January 6, 2017
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