spank and wank Share definition Flag While getting wanked off, the wankee slaps the wanker's ass cheek until it leaves a mark. "Did you hear? Tim gave Chey the ol' spank and wank the other day." spank and wank by Donkey-ho-tey September 20, 2017 0 0 Get merch Get the spank and wank mug. Buy Now — $32.95 See more merch