Pat-the-Man Share definition Flag the action of grabbing anothers crotch in order to determine the gender of a suspected she-male. I couldn't tell if he/she was a man or a woman so I had to pull a Mick Dundee and "Pat-the-Man " Pat-the-Man by MO ODUM December 17, 2008 0 0 Get merch Get the Pat-the-Man mug. Buy Now — $32.95 See more merch