Definitions by Nonna Myers

scarlatude 

The chronic demeanor or behaviors of a person who scars the psyche of people around him or her (more typically seen in fat women). This word is a combination of the words scar and attitude. Well meaning people befriend these individuals only to find themselves in an abusive relationship.

I needed to be away from her before I could see how much her scarlatude damaged me.

scarlatude by Nonna Myers April 8, 2010