Definitions by InYaDamnPanties
if you can't beat them, join them
If you are unable to outdo rivals in some endeavor, you might as well cooperate with them and thereby possibly gain an advantage. If your adversaries are stronger than you, it is better to join the adversaries. If you have to give up fighting some group because you can't win, band together with them.
if you can't beat them, join them by InYaDamnPanties November 29, 2016