The act of giving or receiving anal penetration with a non-erect penis. This act is often done as a romantic act, which is often performed by many teenagers. Can be done straight or gay, as long as there is at least one male
Aaron: So mate, are you ready to receive some soft anal?
Jordy: Hellz to the yer!!
Romantic or delicate penetration of anothers anus. Ofter accompanied by candlelight and smooth music.
John: would you like to come to my house for some soft anal?
Sharon: Oh you are so romantic john!