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1.
phrase;

1. Sexual intercourse with willing participants ranging, statistically, between 50% and 99% of all combined participants.

See also: rape, surprise sex, non-consensual sexual contact.

2. (Uncommon usage) Any intended or unintended action resulting in labored usage of liquid or sheet type fabric softener.
eg.

1. Marvin's attempt to "put the sensual back in non-consensual" resulted in a snuggle with a struggle.

2. Immediately upon dropping the box of dryer sheets behind his '50s era washing machine, Marvin realized he was on the receiving end of a "snuggle with a struggle" if he was to enjoy the benefits fresh, fabric softened ski-mask.
by your real name? September 05, 2013