to ease the tension and/or hostility in someone by saying nice and calming things, only to completely take advantage of their submission and lowered emotional defenses. applicable for females as well as males....pretty much anything that can be persuaded
My nine on his lips, his fifth on my chin, I start whispering
"Put your gun down, we can skip town"
Rocked him to sleep, pushed back his meat
Lift off his chain, took his shit, emptied out close range... - Nas (excerpt from song "Shoot Em' Up)