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A significant other. One who is not yet ready for engagement (or does not believe in engagement), but who has strong relevance in another's life. More than a non-committal boy/girl friend, but less than a committed fiancé(e)
Host: You may invite your significant other to the dinner party.

Guest: Thank you, I will invite my relevancé
by carlos romeros December 09, 2010