To let that which does not matter truly slide. See also: to Play it Durden

Taken from the movie/book Fight Club
Dave crashed my car on Saturday night, but instead of getting mad, I just told Dave in a calm way that if he ever destroyed something I own again, I'd have his balls. I was playing it Durden.
by c0smoline March 18, 2005
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