a woman who holds deep seeded feelings for each of her ex's no matter how they treated her. doesn't know how to let go of any of them. holds onto each one. 'collects' them such as a hoarder. goes back and forth between them for comfort. even with a new boyfriend still takes care of her prior ex's from the past. doesn't know how to let go of the men from her past.
girl: I hung out with my ex last night, we didn't do anything we just snuggled. It was comforting.