Said when one would like lime juice in their beer rather than the whole lime wedge jammed in bottle. Said by those that prefer the hint of lime but would like to drink their beer without chunks of lime or fucking wedge blocking beer. The bartender should upon receiving command, squeeze lime into beer and throw away wedge.
fine ass girl: "Say bartender, can I have a Dos Equis?"

Bartender: "You want a lime with that?"

fine ass girl: "In it but not in it."
by anal sex and beer May 9, 2009
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