2. power tripping and wielding that power, usually fucking you or another person over
3. in usage, can be gauged on a personal scale. ie. footlong, veiny boner= a lot of hate vs. half-mast boner=sort of hate/average dislike.
1. Dude... That Hitler fella had a huge hate boner for the Jews. And the Gypsies. And the Slavs.
2. Person 1: How'd you feel about those questions the prof asked you?
Person 2: Maaaannnn.... They were terrible. That prof has a raging hate boner for me.
3a. I seriously hate that guy. I'm talking veiny, viagra fueled, never-ending hate boner.
3b. Person 1: Seriously, I have a raging hate boner for that douche.
Person 2: Meh, I'm only at half-mast hate boner for him. Closer to that "seeing an ugly chick naked" semi-chub of a hate boner.