1. young intellectual, who is goodlooking, charming and has everything a woman needs.

2. guy who breaks hearts without knowing
Dude, you are such a fems... yuhave Jessy and Mindy fighting over you.
by Doe November 28, 2004
Top Definition
The feminine one in a lesbian relationship.You usual cant tell she is gay unless she wears some type of rainbow.She usual dates butchdykestud
Ben-Damn that girl lookin right.
Dave-Yea u right 2 bad she a fem.
Ben-Yea 2 bad
by EveryStudzWish1 December 19, 2004
The feminine person in a relationship
Usually refers to lesbians (see dyke)
antonym-butch or dom
She thinks that fem is sexy.
by Niecee August 18, 2003
The more feminane lesbian. Usually the girlier one in the relationship. Usually dating a dominant female that is either butch, stud, androgynous or some times even a drag king. Although some times fems do prefer other fems.
My friend Leidy prefers a fem chick even though she is fem herself. But I am fem and I prefer Androgynous women, studs, or Drag kings.
by Kinky Dyke October 31, 2006
'Fems’ – a gender non-specific term, not unlike the English colloquial term guys, which can be used to describe a group of people.

Derived from: the French word femme meaning woman or the Anglo-French term of the Law, 'feme' also meaning woman. Much like the term 'guy', when used to refer to two or more people, the gender restriction is lifted such that one or more of the people may be male.
“Meeting the fems at the park for an afternoon session filled with ciders and sun”
by gtheseahorsey November 30, 2015
A gay male with feminine gestures and remarks.

See gay aiken or ryan seacrest
Dale: "OMFG I love that blouse Daisy where did you get it? Is that from Forever 21 cause it's gorgeous!"
Gary to John: "What a fem, total yes homo".

by trigger1007 August 26, 2008
-Short for female
-used against guys if they're acting girly/feminine like
" Shut-up fem i don't wana hear it, go make some guy frends".

" He's such a fem! WHO says LIKE OMG TOTALLY except for girls??".

by Jenny Le February 24, 2008
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