when you bully your friends/partners but you still love them
Real life example of affectionate bullying:

Guy: Suck my 7.5 inch dick.
Girlfriend: You have a tiny willy.
Guy: You're gay.
Girlfriend: I love you.
Guy: I love you too.
by 7.5inchMonster September 3, 2011
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