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A man who has been dating a girl for a long time without asking her to be his wife. This man will usually have sour feelings with anything pertaining to marraige, and will make his signifigant other feel guilty for even thinking of getting married.
"Have you and Jacob talked about getting married?"
"No, he's being a complete Toefarmer"
by Jaymes22 November 13, 2011