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Used when a homosexual is found in prison:

Throwing the soap is when a man intentionally drops the soap, seeking out to be "Anally Violated" or Ass-Raped. This request to be ass-raped comes out two ways, the man gets raped, or, he gets beaten up for demanding such an action. An opposite of dropping the soap
Victor: Uh, Honey, the prison called again, they said your brother was assaulted for throwing the soap.

Gina: What? I didn't know he was a flamer .
by Hamsting August 13, 2010