A common deflection method used by the offending party to revert blame or guilt back to the offended party.
Used as a means to avoid accepting responsibility for making a mistake or a bad decision. Expressed by bringing up a prior conflict that is irrelevant to the current situation.
Can be used as a a noun or a verb.
"You shouldn't have done that."
"Well remember when you forgot our anniversary??"
"Don't try and put me in the reverse doghouse"
"Stop trying to reverse doghouse me!"