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1. Pity Pats
When a girl doesn't like you the way you like her, and she gives you a hug accompanied with sympathetic pats on the back or shoulder.
Guy 1: "So how'd your date with Courtney go?"

Guy 2: "She gave me the pity pats when I dropped her off"

Guy 1: "Ouch"
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