A term used when there is an unfortunate event or happening leading to undesired results.
Example 1: Statement- "You turned my Coke into Pepsi" Reply- "Not the that".

Example 2: When you find out the woman you've been dating is really a man... NOT THE THAT!

Example 3: Woman- "Honey I'm pregnant again" Man- "Not the that!"
by Friends of Ridicule June 27, 2011
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